who throws things in a fight ? Clara once threw a pillow but neither are really into throwing things
who goes to their parent’s house for a weekend when things get bad ? Clara
who wants to have children ? who doesn’t ? if both do, how do their goals differentiate ? They both want kids, each are just afraid to bring it up. Theta wants a family but she doesn’t want to have to watch them die. 
who is more averse to physical contact ? Neither
who hates/dislikes their neighbors the most ? Theta doesn’t like Clara’s neighbors, they’re too nosy 
who hates/dislikes their significant other’s family ? If Clara knew Theta’s family she’d hate them
who thinks their partner turned out a different person than they thought ? Clara. Theta pretends she’s strong and tough but once she feels comfortable around someone she’s gooey 
who is more likely to cheat ? Neither, though Theta is more likely to get kissed by an alien
who is the more experienced ( sexually or otherwise ) ? Theta
who hates/dislikes their significant other’s friends ? Theta doesn’t like that Danny Pink fellow because he keeps flirting with Clara but other than that, they like each other’s friends
who wants to go to social gatherings the most ? Theta. She’s always trying to drag Clara out to a party. It’s not that she doesn’t like spending time alone with Clara, it’s that she really doesn’t know how to sit still
who is most likely to be dishonest ? Theta. Lying has become almost second nature to her
who is more emotionally closed off ? how does this affect their partner ? Theta. She knows she loves Clara but still tries to deny it to a point. She doesn’t want to lose someone else. Clara understands but it frustrates her because by putting up walls Theta is just wasting the time they do have together
who is the dessert person ? Both
who is more conservative ? Clara. Years in space have made Theta pretty unaffected by things
who hates/dislikes oral sex ? Neither really do. They don’t have sex all that often, instead spending most nights cuddled together